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Stephanie Arnel
 

As, I did not know Evan personally, I was friends with his mom, Malani many years ago. We met at work, and as business associates our relationship quickly grew into a great friendship.

During this time I was a single mom trying to provide a loving home for my family, struggling to make ends meet. It was then that Lani opened her heart and her home to me and my two small children. There was a need and she met it. Through the years we ended up going our separate ways. I was never able to fully repay Lani for all she had done for us, I don’t know that it could ever be repaid, how do you put a price tag on kindness, compassion, generosity and love? It truly is a season in my life that I often reflect on, giving thanks and acknowledging that I’m eternally grateful for her provision.

When I heard the heartbreaking news about Evan’s passing, and with the understanding that the circumstances have no comparison it was my prayer that in some small way I’d be able reach out and help Lani in her time of need, as she was there in mine.

Upon reading all the incredible testimonies and hearing from others about Evans love for life and love for others, I was humbled, privileged and blessed to be able join hands with an amazing group of people that love him, as they formed the Evan O’Connor Memorial Fund.

The fund is providing assistance to those in need and bringing tribute to Evan’s memory. It is also a strong foundation of people from around the globe, reaching out to offer love, support and encouragement to Evan’s family, the ones that instilled those wonderful qualities of giving, compassion, friendship, and love, in Evan, his legacy that will never be forgotten.

 

For everything there is a season, and a time for every matter under heaven:

A time to be born, and a time to die;
a time to plant, and a time to pluck up what is planted;

A time to kill, and a time to heal;
a time to break down, and a time to build up;

A time to weep, and a time to laugh;
a time to mourn, and a time to dance;

A time to throw away stones, and a time to gather stones together;
a time to embrace, and a time to refrain from embracing;

A time to seek, and a time to lose;
a time to keep, and a time to throw away;

A time to tear, and a time to sew;
a time to keep silence, and a time to speak;

A time to love, and a time to hate;
a time for war, and a time for peace.

Ecclesiastes 3: 1-8

 

email Stephanie at sarnel@thebridgetoforever.org